I get so hyper-focused and stressed out about chores, work, and kid-related things. Sometimes, I forget that it's OK to just enjoy things.
I need to have more built-in pleasant experiences. Even if it costs money. I also need to make some changes to our current life. Even if it costs more money.
Easy things that make a difference:
- Flowers
- Nice soap
- Nice (new!) bathrobe and slippers
Easy things that do not cost anything:
- Walks and hikes in local parks
- Board games with the family
Things that require some planning but are are still pretty easy:
- Theater
- Concerts (classical)
- Time with friends
Time and money-intensive things:
- Travel! (Without worrying too much about which destination would be perfect. Just pick a place and go.)
- Update kitchen! (I've been having indecision paralysis for years - but no matter what counter, cabinets, and floor I pick, it will be an improvement on what we have now.)
Dear Reader, what brings you joy? What makes you happy?
This is daria from momofchildren.wordpress.com
ReplyDeleteAll of the things you mentioned are on my list, too.
Also. Meditation. 10 minutes to myself. Library books. All free.
Hikes you already mentioned. Bed time routine with my kids. Also free. Yes to new quality loungewear. Love Barefoot dreams. Skincare- a new face cream that works and makes you feel better (for me- anything with squalane in it). Tea. A mask. A good night sleep. Sunlight on my face. Birds flying overhead.
Library books - yes!!!
DeleteSkincare - I really need to do this. Except I have no idea what works for me and what feels good...