When kids were little and sleep was interrupted - it made perfect sense that I would feel tired most days.
When the pandemic happened and I was stressed out - it made sense that I would feel tired.
Kids are older now and many things are easier, but there is still a lot of anxiety (kid-related, work-related, life-related, health-related). We also have fairly busy lives (work, house chores, kid-related activities, making sure everyone is fed and clothed, etc) - but nothing too extreme.
I just always feel tired and sleepy. By 6 pm, I feel so completely drained and exhausted that I can barely keep my eyes open. Once I get to 8 or 9 pm, I typically feel slightly better. It just seems like I have some weird energy "collapse" around 6 pm. Which is a problem because a lot of kids activities are happening around then...
I need to do something to improve my energy levels; I need to resolve both the 6-pm collapse and the general fatigue that I feel all the time.
Maybe I can try and figure out a way to get more sleep. I mean I think I get around 7.5-8 h most nights but maybe that's an overestimation? I need to track this....
Maybe I could build in more exercise into my day (typically, exercising = going on walks) - hard to do right now because work is so crazy and then we've got the the usual cooking/cleaning/driving kids to activities stuff. But I need to try, even if it's 20 minutes of playing badminton with kids...
It could be age- and hormone-related. Not much could be done there except adjusting expectations.
I should probably get my thyroid levels checked.
Dear Reader, what's your energy level like? Is there anything special that you do to combat fatigue?
Natasha, thanks for the reflection. I go through ebbs and flows in energy. If I am feeling positive, have support, and things t look forward to, then my energy is up. Also, after my period and the ovulation I feel up. Yoga helps I think as well as gardening, or just being outside even if it's for a little bit. Boundaries at work are important, having boundaries makes me feel powerful thus giving me energy, making me feel like I am in charge of my time versus other people in charge of my time. When do I have low energy? When T and I are arguing/going through difficulties, when the house is a mess, when we are overloaded with activities.
ReplyDeleteAlso, when I am sick - flu/cold/etc - I am just so tired.
What do I do... Alone time, sleep, reading, just cuddling with T, writing, i.e. getting all the stuff out of my head.