Tall

My 14-year old son is now taller than me.

I knew it was going to happen - but it is still odd, my child now taller than me, and likely to be towering over me in a few years. Or in a few months? Kids growing is a spectacular thing that takes one by surprise. Even when you know to expect it.

He will be going into high school next fall - class selection is done. He is talking about college. I am going to be cheering him on - and I need to stay out of his way. Meaning, I shouldn't try to take him by the hand and lead him to where I think opportunities are best. Where is the line between helping your kids succeed and be happy versus shoving excessive help at them and making them passive passengers in their lives?